As singletons we're used to having control over our own finances. Getting married changes all that. Or it should. By refusing to adapt your financial habits to accommodate married life, you could soon be heading for the divorce courts. Indeed, financial incompatibility is one of the main reasons cited for couples divorcing. To avoid this happening to you it's crucial you take an honest and open approach towards your finances from the start. It has to be worth it if you value your marriage. Here are a few ideas that might help you find a little financial harmony in your marriage.